when i invitefriends to hunt with me on my land, i make it perfectly clear that we have certain standards on what size bucks we shoot here. i'll usually show them pictures or mounts on my wall to show them the type of deer they should be waiting for, and friends that ignore these requests and blast away at small bucks are not invited back. i don't jump down their throat or end our friendship, i just help them find and drag out their deer, help them clean it, and send them on their way like nothing is wrong. but you can rest assured they won't be invited back.