Lil bro, I suggest you:
1. Learn the Serenity Prayer; &
2. Learn how to be humble.

People don't demand respect, they earn it. When you walk into someplace newwith your chest all puffed up and open your mouth before you know who you are talking to, your apt to get smacked down in a hurry. Then you'll go around everywhere else talking bad about a place that could have been beneficial to you.

An ignorant man shows his stupidity through his mouth, a wise man shows his intelligencethrough his silence.

Keep coming back.