RE: Question about flash videos on a website
I've designed dozens and dozens of web sites and thought I knew a little about it until I tried to tackle adding Flash video to a site. I'm not ashamed to say it literally and physically kicked my butt! That being said, I finally got it to work on my site andsince have been successful in adding iton a couple of others. If I can help you I will but keep in mind I'm far from an expert on the subject.
First, what player are you trying to use?
Do you have the player in the same folder as the page that is playing the video?
You might try working on this on a template or temporary page on your site until you get it right. Send me a link and I'll take a look at your code.