DM, you're alright!
One thing I should add, I was not comfortable with my magnum at first. Even though I had shot guns all my life. I put a muzzle brake on it. After putting the brake on it, I started shooting it pretty good, pretty quick. Without the brake it would have taken me much longer to get use to it. Even though I am a magnum fan, I would bet there are a bunch of new shooters that sale their magnums very quickly. I would recommend shooting a buddies magnum before buying one. Magnums are an aquired taste, just like good whiskey!