RE: 223
hotgunner try shooting a friends .243. If the recoil is the main concern they are not bad. A good friend of mine got his wife a .243 and she has killed 5 with it with 5 shots, she doesn' t weigh 80 pounds soaking wet either. You may be able to find a good used one fairly reasonable. Get the best scope you can afford, you can always swap it to your next rifle.