RE: 20 Gauge or 410 For Young Boy
I recommend the 20 if AT ALL possible. He will be discouraged if he isn't hitting things like the other fellas said and we certainly don't want that.
Make every effort to get him light powered loads or even have someone handload them for you for a year or so if necessary until he gets just a bit older and bigger.
Good luck and thanks for getting another young one out into the great outdoors!