I think you are misunderstanding my point. Condemn andnotagree withare 2 different things. Plus, I think that the best lessons learned are from mistakes we make and not allowing someone to fail is really a disservice to them in the long run IMO.

You're a good person, and I am sure a good dad. You know your son and what the right course of action is. I am just saying what is right for me in my situation tothe best of my knowledge.