I am in agreement with you.I just view it from a perspective of what do I want out of this.If it is a non hunter I want them to bring them along to my way of thinking but I don't want them to realize they have been led.I want it to be a natural transition for them.Hey this guy is a decent guy,he explained some things to me in a way that made sense and was not aggressive about it,if he is all right than all or most hunters are all right.That is what I am looking to have happen.With the anti I just want them to appear foolish so if any one else in participating in the conversation or watching they walk away thinking,the hunter was calm and cool and respectful the anti was a nut bag.I want the people that were watching or listening to go anti hunter bad,hunter is good,in it's simplest form.
I think for us being right or within complete justification to speak in certain ways is not enough,I want to influence people positively to our way of thinking.