How often do you NOT find what you're looking for at your local pro shop?
All the time.
Do you feel they've got an adequate handle on what's hot and trendy?
Yes and no.
If not, are they willing to order the item in -- and are you willing to let them?
Yes, I go behind the counter and get the part number from the catologueand write what I want in the order book. I am about the only one they let do this tho.
Most importantly... has anyone at the shop ASKED you what you'd like to see them carry?
yes, some times they listened and some times they didn't.