If your worried about the fence, thing do as Id do.
I'd go with the guys and have a blast. You love fliming right? tag along with a pal.... Go to the cookout...stuff your face and have a few beers..have fun. I personally wouldn't partake in the hunting, just the way I feel. Don't bother me one bit if someone else wants to do it, I just don't really want to do it.
Me? Im filming my buddy until we can go back for some BBQ and Beers.I mean, that is if I was 21.

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