RE: Buck with a doe.
Depends. If he's a shooter (130") I'll give her the pass most likely. You could look at it this way too though being she's 20 yards away that buck really isn't going to have a clue what actually happened but he will more then likely remember what happened in that particular spot from there on out that season.
I'd let her go I guess and play it safe if he's a P&Y buck. If he's not the caliber buck I'm after that year I'd zip her!