Interesting...

Have you ever been given this ultimatum? I have.
I gaveup hunting for her and focused ALL my attention to her. I was miserable! Things didn't work out with my first wife.

You can't be something you're not, even if you try. And I did try.

As of today, I've been married to my second wife for 9 years. She wouldn't dream of giving me this ultimatum. She has asked me not to go hunting at a particular time or weekend, but that's about it. There has to be compromise, NOT ultimatum.

Say what you want but unless you've actually beenin this situation, you're only guessing.