ORIGINAL: twildasin
There is no ultimatum period. When we met 11 years ago I loved hunting she fell in love with me and I fell in love with her. If it ever came to it I would pick hunting cause there would be more to it than just picking one because she knows its what I love! I agree with Matt(RJ) if it got to that point the relationship is downhill anyways! I will say this though my wife is going back to school for her nursing degree so hunting is gonna take a hit this year and for 4 years but still there is not an ultimatum!
Talk her out of it! My wife is a nurse and she hates it, she is a slave to people for 12-14 hours a day and is not paid equal to the work she puts out. Have your wife go to school for Occupational Therepy it still fours years long and they make about 10-20 grand more a year than a nurse and work way less per shift than a nurse.
Just some friendly advise, trust me, you will be a happier person too!
If the relationship every gets to the point that she is threatening "it is her or whatever" then it is time to let her go!