Yeah if mine laid down an ultimatum, she may find herself very disappointed.. However this can be situational, I mean if I hunted all the freaking time and gave her nor my kids the time of day, then I oculd understand. However I try to keep things balanced to where everyone is happy and hse sees that so there is no need for ultimatums. She dont like when I go sometimes but she gets over it, or she picks on me whenI dont kill anything saying I should have just stayed home... AHHHHH women, cant live with them, cant kill them.....