As much as i hate these posts ill offer some advice. I havnt read the whole thing so dont slay me if im missing something but is she interested in you? If your all worried or to scared to talk to girls then just play if safe and only attempt totalk with the ones that make the effort to talk to you. If theirs mutual interest then bullseye! If you just want her and shes like whatever then your not going to change her mind most likely.