I'm agressive until the TOM is commited to my set up. Many times I have had them on an all out run to get there. I agree some guys should be very passive with their calling. I get to laughing so hard sometimes when I hear new to calling hunters from their blinds. The calls resemble a turkey getting a hot poker shoved up is rear. It's like a middle eastern guy talking English, you know what he is saying but you can tell he's not from around here. Same goes with calling turkeys. The better you get at speaking their languageincreases the attention you will get from your Tom.