I knew I should not have commented- don't matter what I try to explain here - both sides where in the wrong.

Still a matter of ethics so i went and got the Turkey's Hunters code of ethics - yes mistakes happen!
[*]As a responsible turkey hunter, I will[*]not let peer pressure or the excitement of the hunt cloud my judgment;[*]learn and practice safe hunting techniques;[*]hunt the wild turkey fairly;[*]know the capabilities and limitations of my gun or bow and use it safely;[*]obey and support all wildlife laws and report all violations[*]respect the land and the landowner and always obtain permission before hunting;[*]avoid knowingly interfering with another hunter and respect the right of others to lawfully share the out-of-doors;[*]value the hunting experience and appreciate the beauty of the wild turkey;[*]positively identify my target as a legal bird and insist on a good shot; and share responsible turkey hunting with others and work for wild turkey conservation.[*]JW