Sorry to hear of all your woes!! Glad you can see the "up" side of other things. It is quite difficult to take care of someone who is so ill they need a hospital bed. I know first hand, how it is having had 2 hubbies who became ill. My 1st hubby suffered a severe stroke when he was 53 and was bedridden for 2-1/2 yrs. He could no longer speak with me, except for answering yes or no. Plus side was, that he still his comprehension. I had to have an aide stay with him while I worked nights. I lucked out with her as she was a nursing student, but was still difficult to handle it all. I think your sister-in-law means well, but sounds like she is really biting off more than she can chew!!! I do hope all goes well, though.

Hang in there regarding all the other problems. It does get overwhelming when so many things seem to happen at once. Good luck to you and May God bless. Kathy