I love my wife, but I think Valentine's day is the biggest load of crap, rip off day ever created [:@]. I refuse to partake.
I will say Happy Valentine's day and maybe buy a card but that's it. My wife feels the same way. Thank goodness she does not care about jewlery or roses or any of the other stuff we are supposed to buy for this made up day.
I let her know what she means to me every day and if she wants or needs something we discuss it and get it if we both agree. Same thing with me.