Kahr P45 , .45 because it will get the job done. Kahr because they are flatter and better feeling than the baby glocks. I also had a Kimber ultra carry in .45 and while heavier than my KahrI loved that gun. I wishI never sold it. If you can't handle the recoil of a .45 then go with the P9 or PM9 from Kahr.