I have 35 years under my belt and my secret has been to snore real loud every night then start acting goofy like I have the " here' s Johnny" cabin fever thing going. Work real hard on the house and spit a few bucks for shopping. She eventually says I need to go to Alaska for a week or spend a week out elk hunting. My work has always interfered more than my great wife and I thought I would fix that by resigning from my corporate job and buying my furniture making business. WRONGO! Good hunting.