RE: Turkey Load prefference
I'm cheap. I started with Win Super X 3" #5. I shoot a regular full choke, and they pattern just fine to 30 yds. Never switched ammo.
I'd start on the low end and try more expensive loads if you can't get the cheaper ones to pattern.
I know guys do like to shoot 40-50 yds, but I don't generally set up where shots will be that long.