if your girlfriend/wife wanted to get into archery would go an get her a bow an set it up for her an get her into it OR...... you your self have been eyein up this new bow u wanted nothing wrong with yours but u really want this new bow. tell her bow huntin anit for her she aint got the patiencean get your self the bow...you can only afford one or the other not both.......... i think id feel way to awful if i didnt get her set up