In addition to these good points that Fran mentions what about proximity to medical services,shopping,entertainment/cultural things,airports,your families.
Atlasman,you are in an enviable position,through your own hard work and planning I am sure.In converstaion with your wife determining the rank of particular priorities and then move forward.
I wish you good luck! I hope it all comes together in a way that is much better than you could ever have imagined!
About that Steuben County lease thing,if that is serious I may have an interest in participating.