On the surface I'd say this is WAYYYYYyyyy too general a statement. There are people walking amonst us, RIGHT NOW.....that we have NO IDEA of what they've done or what they're capable of.
Not a general statement at all. I don't hold a person's past mistakes against them, if they've turned over a new leaf. As fornot knowing what they're capable, of course youcan't know until they do it. But when you DO find out what they're capable of doingsomething you can't stand, then you have a decision to make.
As I said all along, I talk to him and find out what his reasons were for doing it, tell him how I feel about it and, if he continues along that path, the friendship ceases.