RE: I am heartbroke.
First, my sincerest regrets go out to you and your wife. I'm not a religious man so I can't send prayers but I do believe in a higher power so my warmest wishes are sent in lieu. Hold onto your wife, your daughter, and everything else you have and let it be enough to see you through this tough time. I know, brother, I lost a 10 year old son.
Next and last, I've taught myself over the years not to fight life so much. ThoughI can't possibly know for sure which times, sometimes when the same things keep working againstmy favor over and over, perhaps it's "God" telling me he's looking out for my best interest.
Peace and comfort be with you.
HTH