Cougar, your not going to get any useful marriage counseling on here! These guys may talk tough, but when it's allsaid and done, if they have a meaningful relationship, then it's give and take! Anybody that claims to have a take, take relationship with no regard to the spouseis either a lier or in a dead end relationship. She has her reasons for not wanting the family vehicle used for hunting, find out what the reason is and find a solution. It could be as simple as seat covers and floor mats. You'll never know unless you ask.