i see no proplem with you useing the explorer if there i another car she can use

i think any wife or husband tellng the other they cannot use something when hunting or whatever is bull sh*t

what would he say if you tod ehr when she went shopping she can not use it because she might get a door ding use the thing and ask her if she would perfer you use a car that might cause you to go off the road or get stuck in the woods all night
there is nothing wrong with you doing the laundry cooking or cleaning the sidewalk off for her hey i cook damneer everyday