RE: Bow for wife?
I bought the Diamond Edge pakage for my son. You probably would be fine with the 40-50 lbs limbs. I got him the 30-40 lbs limbs and think he should be fine @ 30lbs DW. Probably can go a little under the DW if needed too. I think the Bow looks great, had to get back in box to get it wrapped...HO Ho ho!
Good luck!