Honestly..you guys who post about it make wayyyy more of it than those who are involved. Most of us enjoy and can see the humor/fun in these things. I can almost guarentee that Atlas and Gmmat..Myself and others, enjoy the threads and usually type responses with a big dumb grin our faces.
An outsider may view it as fighting..but those who have been around can find entertainment in it!
Hell I take the "other" side sometimes....just to make it interesting. I'll bet you I haven't bought SL garment in WELL over a year.....and I'll also bet you it's been on me about 10% of my hunts, this year.
The "I can't believe ya'll are arguing" threads are the laughers!