Well there is a lot of things that will work.
For the kids and the ladies its nice to keep the recoil at a reasonable level with out limiting capability, the best load I know for that is a blue 50 /40 MMP sabot with a 40 cal [10mm] 200 gr xtp and 90 gr of RS or a 200 gr Shock Wave which is about the samew thing with a balistic nose on the bullet. I use them when I want an extreme range load with a 110gr load of 777. They are deadly on boar and deer and one ladie on another forum took a moose with them.
Some of the other choices would be the 230, 240, and 250 gr XTP or Gold Dot They sould work ok with anything over 80 gr if you can get them to group in that gun with thwe load. Lee