Bottom line, divorces are ugly. I got along really well with my first father-in-law too. But soon after the split, he called me up and chewed on me pretty good about a bunch of stuff my ex told him about me, none of which was true. One thing that stuck with me was how upset he got with me for not paying the house note and how he had to give my ex money to pay the bills. The problem with that was I had been making payments the whole time, so why did she want that much money? He didn't believe me, so I faxed him the cancelled checks from my statement. I also found out my ex had taken out several credit cards in my name and maxed them out without making any payments. When the old guy found out I as telling the truth, he got even angrier with me than before. Figure that out. Come to think of it, he may have just been upset that his daughter got arrested for forgery, theft, threats, damage to property, unauthorized use of a moveable, and false personation of an officer. Nah, that couldn't be it.