Uggg,

Sounds like you two have some talking to do. Tough to give a opinion when I don't know either one of you or your relationship history and this is justmy opinion you need to decide what is right for you.

The houses don't mean crapyou cansell them,it's your daughter that needs you both. And hopefully depending on how you feel about her you can set aside the past and move on. If you CAN"T put away the past then you have a problem. You need to think on how you feel about her. IF you still love her you need to work it out for you andyour daughter. If you don't you need really think what's best for you. And if it's worth being with someone you don't love or trust.
But you can't try and work it out and keep throwing her lies back at her either. It will never work,if you both agree it's the past then leave it in the past. Start over and love that baby girl.

Mine is 26 months and I am going to give her a kiss right now.

Good luck I hope it all works out.