BTW, 14?! I was too busy hanging out in the woods to worry about girls at 14. Save yourself a TON of money and trouble (actually you'll save both of you a ton of trouble and melodrama). Write girls off your list until 21-24. Spend the time traveling, hunting, fishing, hunting in far off places, etc. After you start chasing girls you don't do much of that and then you start realizing you want to do that stuff and it could be too late.

Remeber, the buck iseasiest to kill when he's chasing does.