Asked this same question a few months back. Was set on buying a 357 since many said the 44 mag had a bit too much recoil. Well, I shot one, Ruger 44 with 7 3/4 barrel and it was a peice of cake to handle.

However, end up buying a 9 mm at a GREAT price. Not to deer hunt with though, just trespassers. LOL.