That's complete BS. As a fellow student tho I know exactly what you're dealing with. That's why I refuse to give out details anymore. I say "I have things to take care of" and that's it. If they press it I just say I'd rather not talk about it but I need to leave town for awhile to take care of some things. I've never had that much of a problem as you, but it's a pain in the ass. That's all it really is tho, a power trip. Good luck with the hunt, hope you get one.