RE: useing self loaded ammo for self defense
Yes, there is a lot of truth to that.
A lawyer will argue anything to win the case regardless if it actually has any merit or not. If the jury is filled with a bunch of feel gooders that think that cops should only have guns and you loaded ammo specifically for killing a human being and actually did kill another human with that ammo you can see how it could turn real sour on you real quick.