RE: My eyes were opened.....Am I selfish?
I got an invitation several years ago to do some doe hunting on outfitted property in Pike County, IL. Drove 5 hours each way, and it never occured to me to shoot anything but a doe, even though I saw several bucks that would have gone 150+. I used to hunt some private land out of state that was also does only, and never had any problem not abiding by the rules.
When someone gives you an invitation to hunt private land, follow their rules and be greatful. Otherwise, it would be like going to your neighbor's house for dinner, then getting up from the table to raid his refrigerator -- rude.