I too am selfish. I invited several of my friends over for a cookout. I fixed a bunch of venison burgers, hot dogs and chicken along with baked beans, and cole slaw. One of my friends said, I appreciate what you'r e offering me, but I know you have steaks in the freezer,so I will be honest and tell you that I am going to turn my nose up at your menu and that I am going to help myself to one of those steaks---and I hope you won't mind. I did. How selfish can I be!