This is just my perspective and opinion and I have stated it previously. I don't think Jeff is being selfish at all.He is offerring something to someone,it is an invitation that is being given generously.The fact that a limitation has been placed on the offer wouldn't bother me in the least.When someone gives you a gift do you complain that it wasn't bigger or different? No you accept it graciously with enthusiasm or you thank them for the offer but politely decline.
I love to hunt and given available time I would hunt with all the good folks I could and take as many folks out as I could.I am a selective buck hunter but I love to hunt and spend time with people who have the same passion.I would have no problem being excited about a doe hunt.
As far as letting a buck walk under the restrictions that were accepted and agreed upon,I would have no problem.Your word is your word and integrity is integrity.Not just when it is easy,but when it takes character.If I don't have my word I have nothing!