Any and all hunting dogs have to have a lot of energy regardless of the breed. Who in the heck would want a hunting dog that runs and finds a tree or brush pile to lay in? Most every bird dog I know of can make a good family pet. I love the style and looks of the setters. For me seeing and watching a setter work in the field is hard to compare to. Regaurdless of the type of setter you choose they a can be a great family dog as well as hunters.