Rob and Critr-Gitr have it right. You have to determine if you can get through or you'll just be wasting your time and creating hard feelings. I have done my share of reading and research beyond magazines, but there are still times when things happen that go against everything I have learned. It's hard for me to believe even when I see it with my own eyes because I have been taught that it should not be happening that way. So, don't discount the fact that these "old-timers" haven't actually seen a thing or two that don't fit in with what we find to be "fact." The only thing certain in life is that it will end.