chuck, IMO, it all about balance, that is with a normal child, we split things up, between fun and work, and what they want, and what is going on, i think you are doing great. myself, not sure i could handle it, i have too admit, andi have to tip my hat too you brother, somewhere, somehow, somtetime, this will all come back too you. Aaron may not appriciate it today, but one day he will, IMO, Aaron could have not gotten a more careing and devoted father than you,

my friend a huge tip of the hat too you

keith