Jeff-

I think you are WAY missing my point. I haven't been 42 yet, but I've been 36. Us Dad's do want our children to succeed in the worst way. I never doubted my own fathers love. My point was that as loving fathers we can sometimes (or most of the time in some cases) over do it.We think we're showing them how to do something right by doing it for them, but inour hastwe haven't taught them a thing.