GREAT post, BigJ.

I guess what inflames me is the "entitlement" mentality. What's different than say.....your neighbor beating his wife and she seeks refuge in your home? Can he just come on in and get her???

I don't see much difference.

In both cases....the person KNOWS they aren't allowed to be where they want to go....and they say "the hell with it".....I'm going, anyway.