Fran,
You are going to make a great dad some day! What I was trying to get at was not being selfish or blind to the needs of your family.I have no respect for people who put their wants in front of their families needs!
Materialism is a funny thing,I could care less what someone drives,or lives in,or wears on their wrist.What is most indicative to me of that persons character is how they take care of what they have and where they put their family in their sense of priorities.
There is a great bunch of folks here,and the responses on a topic like this provides a lot of verification of the quality of many of the people here.