Sounds like your getting the birds to come to your calls anyway. Well in the turkey world the hen is supose to come to the toms so that is why your toms are hanging up once the see your decoy at 60-100 yards. I'd say you should invest in a jake or a strutting decoy to go along with your hen. If these dominant toms come looking and see your hen is accompanied already those dominant birds will usually close the distance and be lookin to chase your tom deek off or have a lil confrontation with it. Those tom and jake decoys are deadly when you have big muture birds around. They won't work however on your 2 year old bird though usually. They will turn and run nthe other way when they see them but I would say in your situation you don't have any of these birds comin to you cuz if you did they would come in to your hen deek and try to take her off before the big boys come lookin. WCL