Let's see: helped with the wedding,supplied (gave I'm assuming) a car w/title, put in a good word with the boss and got him a job and gave him what sounds like a darned good deal ona bow that's all set up with accessories included (which it sounds as if he was hoping you'd forget about).....Hmmm.There are some people out there that will just take,take,take without ever thinking of giving back in some way. You keep offering and they'll keep taking.Too bad you gave him the $40back. And because you say he drove the car for 2 years makes me think he isn't driving it anymore so let me quess, he sold it and pocketed the $$ ??? Not bashing you here, them 2 yes and what's bad is they might not even realize how wrong they are. There are also people in the world who are just too nice and it sounds like you are one of them. If so, don't change on their account. What goes around comes around .