RE: finding a hunting club
I'd just call local clubs in your area and spell out your situation. You're not looking for a hook up, you're just looking for a place to hunt with other people who enjoy hunting. Ask whomever you speak with if there are any other women in the club and if they would be willing to talk with you before you join. Maybe even ask if you can attend a few meetings before you make your decision. The answers you get to these questions should tell you quite a lot.
I think if you approach it in this manner, you'll be able to find a club you like.