There is a problem with your numbers.You don't hardly EVER get an increase in ke when going lighter.
Usually there is another problem,like underspined arrows not being as efficient and/ or tune causing a problem.

.Didn't you have problems with this?
friction is idependant of speed once an odject is moving,faster DOES NOT mean more friction.
http://hypertextbook.com/physics/mechanics/friction/ you have to go way down to the bottom right before problems to read this statement.
I actually have a Machinist Handbook that staes that friction decreases as speed increases.Laws of dry friction.
But I would choose the heavier if I could get that kind of speed from a 425 grain arrow,hell,I don't get that from a 365 gr arrow.